Okay, so I decided to do this “Is He the One” tarot spread thing today. I mean, I’ve been seeing this guy, and things are pretty good, but you know, a girl’s gotta wonder, is he the one? So, I thought, why not let the cards have a say?
First off, I cleared my space. Got some candles going, put on some chill music – the whole nine yards. Then, I shuffled my deck, thinking real hard about my guy and our relationship. I cut the deck three times, like the instructions said, and laid out the cards.
Setting the Scene
- Cleanse the space: I used some sage and lit a few candles to set a calm mood.
- Focus on the question: While shuffling, I kept my mind on my relationship and the big question.
- Shuffle and cut: Shuffled the deck thoroughly, then cut it into three piles.
The first card I pulled was supposed to be about him, like, where he’s at right now. And guess what? It was The Lovers! I nearly choked on my tea. I mean, that’s a pretty heavy card, right? It’s all about love and connection and choices, and it’s a major arcana, no less. I tried to stay calm. Maybe the cards were just messing with me.
The next card was supposed to show where our relationship is heading. I flipped it over, and… well, I don’t remember exactly which card it was, but it wasn’t a bad one. It was some kind of a positive card, suggesting growth and happiness. Okay, I thought, maybe there’s something to this tarot stuff after all.
There were a few more cards, each with its own little message. One was about challenges we might face, another about what I need to do to make things work. It was all pretty insightful, actually. I was surprised and also I am confused.
I did this “Is he the one” tarot spread, and man, it was something. It showed me what he’s like now and hinted at our future. One card even showed a strong bond between us.
By the end of the reading, I felt… well, I felt a lot of things. Hopeful, mostly. But also a bit more aware of the things we need to work on. I mean, no relationship is perfect, right? But the cards seemed to think that this one has potential.
So, I took some notes, thanked the cards (yeah, I’m one of those people), and put everything away. I’m still not 100% sure if he’s the one, but the tarot spread definitely gave me some food for thought. Maybe I’ll do another one next month, just to see if anything’s changed. Or maybe I’ll just go with the flow and see where things go naturally. Who knows? Life’s a mystery, and that’s half the fun, right?
