Okay, so, I’ve been single for a while now, and, you know, I’m starting to wonder what’s up with my love life. I decided to try something new – a tarot reading. I’ve never done this before, so I was a little nervous, but also pretty excited. I found this simple guide online about “love tarot questions for singles.” Sounded right up my alley.
First, I found a quiet spot in my apartment. I lit a candle, not gonna lie, it made me feel a bit like I was in a movie. Then I got my tarot deck. It was a gift from a friend, and I hadn’t really used it much before. I shuffled the cards, just like I saw in some video online, trying to focus on my love life, or lack thereof.
I decided to start simple. I’d just pull one card and ask a simple “yes/no” question. My first question was, “Am I going to meet someone new soon?” I closed my eyes, took a deep breath, and pulled a card. I flipped it over and… well, I won’t bore you with the details of which card, but based on what I read about that card, it seemed like a “maybe.” Not the clear answer I was hoping for, but hey, it’s something.
Next, I thought I’d try a more complex spread, this one called the “Celtic Cross.” I laid out the cards as instructed, ten cards in total. I used the guide that I found to try to interpret each card’s meaning in the context of love and relationships. It was actually pretty insightful. Each card was about different things. Like one card was about my current situation, another about challenges, and others about my hopes and fears.
- Current Situation: The cards highlighted how I’ve been focusing on myself lately, which is true. I’ve been working on my career and personal growth a lot.
- Challenges: It pointed out my fear of getting hurt again, which, yeah, that’s definitely there.
- Past Influences: This was interesting. It brought up a past relationship that I thought I was over, but maybe I’m still carrying some baggage.
- Future: This part was hopeful! It suggested new opportunities coming my way, but I need to be open to them.
I spent a good hour just looking at the cards, thinking about what they might mean. I even wrote down some notes in my journal. I asked a few more questions like, “What qualities should I look for in a partner?” and “How can I become more open to love?” The cards gave me some interesting perspectives. They suggested I should look for someone who is stable and supportive, and that I need to work on letting go of my past hurts. I tried to clear my mind and focus on being receptive to what the cards might be trying to tell me.
My Takeaways
Honestly, the whole tarot reading was a lot more thought-provoking than I expected. It wasn’t like the cards magically told me who my soulmate is or when I’ll meet them. But, it did give me a lot to think about. It made me realize some things about myself and what I want in a relationship. I feel like I have a better understanding of my own feelings and what I need to work on.
I think I’ll keep doing this, maybe once a month or so. It’s kind of like a self-reflection exercise. Plus, it’s fun! It’s like having a conversation with myself, but with the help of some beautifully illustrated cards. And who knows, maybe the cards are onto something, and I’ll find love soon. Fingers crossed!
