Alright, let’s talk about this here tarot card thing. Folks say you gotta ask the right kinda questions, not just any old thing that pops into your head. They call ‘em “open-ended” questions, whatever that means. Sounds fancy, but it ain’t nothin’ too complicated, I reckon.
See, you can’t just go askin’ “Will I win the lottery?” or “Should I marry that fella down the road?”. The cards, they don’t like that kinda stuff. It’s like they get all grumpy and shut down on ya. You gotta be smarter than that, gotta give ‘em somethin’ to work with.
Instead of them yes or no questions, you gotta ask things like “What can I do to make things better?” or “How can I get myself a better job?”. See? You’re askin’ for advice, not just a straight answer. It’s like askin’ your grandma for help with a pie instead of just askin’ if the pie is gonna be good.
- What can I do to improve my relationship?
- How can I advance in my career?
- Why do I keep running into the same problems?
Them cards, they’re good for lookin’ inside yourself, figurin’ out what makes you tick. They ain’t gonna tell you the future like some crystal ball, but they can sure help you see things clearer. It’s like lookin’ in a mirror, but instead of seein’ your wrinkles, you see your problems, and maybe some ways to fix ‘em.
Now, some folks say you can ask about love. Like, “What can I do to find the love of my life?”. That’s alright, I guess. But don’t go askin’ about that no-good ex of yours, or tryin’ to figure out what that neighbor lady is thinkin’. The cards, they don’t like you meddlin’ in other people’s business. It’s like gossipin’ – it ain’t gonna get you nowhere good.
And don’t you go askin’ the same question over and over again neither. That’s just plain silly. It’s like askin’ your husband if he loves you every five minutes. He’s gonna get tired of it, and so will them cards. Ask once, listen to what they gotta say, and then go do somethin’ about it. That’s the important part, see? You gotta take action.
Think of it like this: you wouldn’t keep askin’ the same question to the same person without doing anything about their answers, right? It’s the same with the tarot. They give you the starting point, the nudge in the right direction, but you gotta walk the path yourself. You have to control your actions, think for yourself. Don’t keep relying on the cards for every small thing.
So, next time you’re sittin’ down with them tarot cards, remember what I told ya. Ask them open-ended questions, the ones that start with “what” or “how” or “why.” And be ready to listen, really listen, to what they gotta say. It might just surprise ya what you learn.
And most importantly, don’t expect the cards to do all the work for you. They’re just tools, like a hammer or a hoe. You still gotta be the one swingin’ it, you still gotta be the one plantin’ the seeds. The cards just help you figure out where to swing and where to plant. It ain’t magic, it’s just plain common sense, really.
Powerful questions help you see things you might’ve missed. They help you figure out what you really want and how to get there. It ain’t always easy, but it’s worth it. Just like workin’ in the fields all day – it’s hard work, but you get a good harvest in the end.
So go on, ask them cards your questions. But ask ‘em right. And then go out there and make somethin’ happen. That’s the real secret, you see. Not just askin’, but doin’.
Tags: Tarot, Tarot Cards, Open Ended Questions, Tarot Reading, Spiritual Guidance, Self Improvement, Advice
