Alright, let’s talk about this “bói tarot” thing, seein’ if your man’s jealous or not. You know, like when he sees you talkin’ to that fella at the market and his face gets all red and tight? That’s what we’re lookin’ at.
First off, let’s be clear, jealousy, it ain’t always a bad thing. Sometimes it just means he cares, you know? Like when he worries if you’re warm enough, or if you ate somethin’ good. But, if he’s startin’ to act all crazy, that’s a different story. That ain’t good. No sirree.
- The Devil Card: Now, if you see this Devil card pop up, watch out! This means he’s got some demons inside him. Maybe he’s always thinkin’ about what he don’t have, always lookin’ over your shoulder. He might be seein’ things that ain’t even there. That ain’t love, that’s just plain worryin’ and possessive.
- Five of Swords: This one here, this means fightin’. Not the fistfightin’ kind, but the sneaky, backstabbin’ kind. He might be gossipin’ about you, sayin’ nasty things behind your back. He’s jealous, alright, but he ain’t gonna be straight up about it. He’ll try to make you look bad instead.
- King and Queen of Pentacles (Reversed): Now, these folks, they’re supposed to be steady and reliable. But when they’re upside down, it means things are all messed up. He might be feelin’ insecure, like he ain’t good enough for you. And that insecurity, that’s where a lot of this jealousy comes from. He might start criticizin’ you, tryin’ to make himself feel bigger.
So, you see these cards, and you gotta start payin’ attention. It ain’t just about the cards though, it’s about how he’s actin’. Is he tryin’ to control you? Is he always accusin’ you of stuff? That ain’t right, no matter what the cards say.
Some folks, they don’t say nothin’, but you can see it in their eyes. They might get all quiet, or start givin’ you the cold shoulder. Maybe they start bein’ all sarcastic and mean-spirited. That’s their way of showin’ they’re jealous. It’s like they’re tryin’ to punish you for somethin’ you ain’t even done. It ain’t right, I tell ya.
And then there’s the ones that try to tear you down. They’ll say things to make you feel small, make you doubt yourself. They want you to feel like you need them, like you can’t do nothin’ without them. That’s the worst kind in my book. Like that old hen peckin’ at the other hens all day long.
Now, if he’s just a little bit jealous, maybe that’s okay. Like I said, it can mean he cares. But if it’s gettin’ out of hand, you gotta do somethin’ about it. You gotta talk to him, tell him how you feel. And if he don’t listen, well, then maybe it’s time to move on. You deserve better than that. You deserve someone who trusts you, someone who makes you feel good about yourself. Don’t you forget it.
Remember, jealousy, it’s just an emotion. It ain’t somethin’ you can control, but it’s somethin’ you can deal with. And if he can’t deal with it, that’s his problem, not yours. You just keep your head up high and keep on walkin’.
So, next time you’re doin’ that “bói tarot”, keep your eyes open. The cards can tell you a lot, but they can’t tell you everything. You gotta listen to your gut, and you gotta pay attention to how he’s treatin’ you. That’s the real truth, not some fancy cards.
And one more thing, if you’re feeling like he’s stepping all over you because he’s jealous, stand up for yourself! You ain’t no doormat, you hear? You’re a strong woman, and you don’t need nobody treating you like dirt.
Tags: [Tarot, Jealousy, Relationships, Love, Emotions, Insecurity, Trust, Communication]
